Congratulations on your decision to tie the knot in the beautiful state of North Carolina! Before you say “I do,” it’s important to understand the legal requirements for getting married in NC. From obtaining a marriage license to officiating your ceremony, here’s a comprehensive guide to help you navigate the legal process smoothly.

1. Marriage License
Obtaining a License
- Both Parties Must Apply: Both individuals must appear together in person to apply for the marriage license. If one party cannot be present, they may complete a sworn affidavit form in advance.
- Age Requirement: Both parties must be at least 18 years old to apply for a marriage license. Exceptions may be made for minors under specific circumstances, such as pregnancy or parental consent.
- Identification: Bring valid identification, such as a driver’s license, passport, or state-issued ID, to verify your identity and age.
- Application Fee: There is a fee for the marriage license application, typically payable in cash. The fee amount may vary by county.
Where to Apply
- County Register of Deeds: Marriage licenses are issued by the Register of Deeds office in the county where you plan to marry. You do not need to be a resident of North Carolina to apply for a marriage license in the state.
Waiting Period
- No Waiting Period: There is no waiting period between obtaining the marriage license and the ceremony. You can get married immediately after receiving your license.
Expiration
- Valid for 60 Days: The marriage license is valid for 60 days from the date of issuance. Ensure that you schedule your ceremony within this timeframe to avoid expiration.
2. Officiating the Ceremony
Authorized Officiants
- Ordained Ministers: A minister, priest, rabbi, or other ordained clergy member may officiate the wedding ceremony.
- Marriages may be performed by an ordained minister of any religious denomination, a minister authorized by a church, a magistrate, or a federally or state-recognized Indian Nation or tribe.
Witnesses
- Two Witnesses Required: North Carolina requires two witnesses to be present during the marriage ceremony.

3. Marriage Certificate
Signing and Filing
- Immediately After Ceremony: Following the marriage ceremony, the officiant, two witnesses, and the couple must sign the marriage license. The officiant is responsible for completing the necessary information and returning the signed license to the Register of Deeds office within 10 days.
Obtaining Certified Copies
- After Filing: Once the marriage license is filed with the Register of Deeds, you can request certified copies of the marriage certificate for legal purposes, such as name changes or proof of marriage.
4. Additional Considerations
Premarital Counseling
- Not Required: North Carolina does not require premarital counseling for couples to obtain a marriage license. However, some couples choose to participate in counseling for personal or religious reasons.
Same-Sex Marriage
- Legal Since 2014: Same-sex marriage has been legal in North Carolina since October 2014, following a federal court ruling. The same legal requirements apply to same-sex couples as to heterosexual couples.
Marriage Annulment and Divorce
- Legal Procedures: If your marriage ends in annulment or divorce, you must follow the legal procedures for dissolution of marriage in North Carolina. Consult an attorney for guidance on the process.
Wrapping Up
Now that you’re familiar with the legal requirements for getting married in North Carolina, you’re ready to begin the process of obtaining your marriage license and planning your ceremony. Remember to check the specific requirements and procedures in the county where you plan to marry, as they may vary slightly. With proper preparation and attention to detail, you can ensure that your wedding day is not only beautiful but also legally recognized. Here’s to a lifetime of love and happiness together!
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